legitimate question!

so the 'me' day was fairly productive... i love them. someone told me today that when they'll look back at college, they will remember me because of my 'me' days. i'm not quite sure if that's a good thing.

oh and for anyone who cares- the cream cheese brownie swirl at the cookie company in the mall is to die for- you have to try it!

and yes bobby- this is somewhat therapeutic and relaxing- i can just smile at a million and one random people, and talk to them if i want- or i don't have to talk to anyone, it's great!!

ok, so i was having a conversation the other day with someone... i'm pretty good friends with him (yes, he's an ex)... but anyways, i don't remember how the subject was brought up, but pretty much he said that when one of us gets married, unless it's to each other, we can't really talk anymore. ok, is this some unwritten law that i have no clue about?!! i can see where it kinda makes sense... i am the jealous type and i wouldn't want my husband to just call up old flames just to chat, that might be kinda weird- but to say we could NEVER talk again is kinda harsh. there is one guy in past that i could understand never talking to again- 1. because we never really talk now and 2. my heart was broken completely in half by him so it would just bring up unnecessary feelings. but what about the ones i'm just friends with? it's not like i'm going to cheat on my husband with them... i'm better than that (i hope). i consider most of them pretty good friends- and they do for the most part know me fairly well, as would anyone that you spend a significant amount of time with. maybe as long as you keep your feelings in check it can work out. but maybe time and being busy will just thin out your relationship with ex's- but to me that's still so sad! i hate the thought of never talking to someone again. i like to always believe that i'll run into people again, even if logically i won't!